Remote Hosting: a start-to-finish guide on running smooth, meaningful virtual meetings

Are you getting the most out of your time in virtual meetings? Over the past few weeks, we’ve been pleased to support folks through their smooth transition to virtual collaboration, decision making and togetherness. Here are the six tips to running smooth virtual meetings we found ourselves sharing most often.



By Stephanie Guico

Like you & yours, our team has spent the last month adapting how we show up for our clients and communities. We gravitated towards the overlapping space where what is most pressing meets how we are most useful. As a remote, international team, virtual meeting places are our main workspace. And as they became yours, we’ve been pleased to support you with tips and tricks for a smooth transition to virtual collaboration, decision making and togetherness.

Here are a couple of the pointers we found ourselves sharing most often:

When preparing for a meeting, check in with yourself as a meeting host:

  • Facilitate to your limits: fall back on doing what you’re good at, and make yourself responsible for one task at a time. For what remains…
    • … resist the urge to Do More: now is a good time to downsize on the bells and whistles of cumbersome tools we’ve integrated in in-person meeting facilitation. With remote work, less can be more.
    • … buddy up, and share the labour. Remote meeting tasks include chat moderation, tech support, timing, cueing up tools and presentations, note taking and engaging in the verbal exchange with participants. This work requires many hands.
    • … plan your tools ahead of time, test them out and keep your tools simple. Tech requires different types of facilitation and participation agility.

Ground yourself in the now and what is

The main question I had to tackle in the past month is “how can we still feel like we’re together?” The short answer is, energy transfers differently online and we’re never quite together, even when we are. This situation is, however, an opportunity to meet differently: to listen better, to clearly express empathy & validation, and to lay out how to distribute speaking time.

Facilitate around intention and a purposeful agenda

Meetings are meetings (rather than emails) because they tackle complex questions that can only be solved through dialogue with numerous minds. They have a stated objective or intention, and a staged approach to arriving at that objective. This approach can fit in a realistically-timed agenda. Call meetings with a compelling invite: include the problem you are trying to solve, sent to those who you’d want to help you solve it. Also include the time limits of the agenda in your invite so people can define their availability, or alternative ways they can support you.

Plan around barriers

Barriers are material things that block passage to something. In this case ‘something’ is full, engaged participation. In remote workplaces, barriers can include: timezones, unilingualism, tech literacy (and anxiety), internet bandwidth & access, diverse security protocols across institutions, and hardware age/type.

TIPS :

  1. Do a tech audit ahead of the meeting, to ensure that the platform you are intending to use, and how you are intending to use it, works for how people can access the meeting place. The audit can include interpretation needs, video v. dial in attendance, usability, compatibility with hardware and security parameters.
  2. Implement a centralised team calendar or availability channel (by email or on Slack) and model a culture where team members are comfortable with presenting their general availability and day to day changes as we juggle multiple at-home responsibilities. These tools reduce the amount of time spent figuring out when to meet across time zones and around individuals’ schedules.
  3. Offer a time off-agenda and immediately before the meeting to introduce new users to the platform you will be using. If the meeting starts at 1pm Eastern, open the line at 12:45 (with fun music to set a relaxed mood!). Spend 10 minutes helping people get acquainted with the virtual space and its functions, as well as the secondary tools you’ll be using throughout the meeting.
  4. Disclose if a meeting, or any elements of it, are being recorded (and why) in the meeting invite. If the disclosure is met with pushback, honour that pushback.

People, their circumstances, and their boundaries don’t need to become barriers

Wow, WfH. Suddenly we know what our colleagues’ and classmates’ homes look like, hear their kids and housemates, know what they look like without a full face of makeup. But why?

TIPS :

  1. Checking in at the beginning of a meeting is a good way to see where each team member is at today, what is on their minds and how they can be present over the course of your time together (and how that may change). Opening this time for transparency, however, requires that the information shared be received in an open and judgment-free way.
  2. Adapt your meeting’s accessibility and engagement protocol based on what data the tech audit and check in provided you with, and go over this after check ins. This includes:

    • How and when participants are invited to ask questions or engage in discussion
    • How to add yourself to a speaker’s list
    • What is the sound default (all muted, and unmute yourself is a good default)
    • Who is the facilitation team, what are their roles and how can participants engage with them
    • How might the agenda have shifted given the info in check ins
    • As you move down the agenda, voice alternatives to engagement for the variable ways people may be accessing the meeting.
  3. Seeing your colleague is nice, but not necessary. They know best what allows them to engage in a meeting and maintain their professional persona, and it is still possible to meet effectively within those named boundaries.
  4. People absorb information in multiple ways (visual, auditory, social and physical being popular shorthand). Find creative ways to enable these throughout the meeting, while keeping in mind bandwidth, accessibility needs, and your own capacity limits as a facilitator. Pairing a power point with spoken content is a good way to tackle two, others include exercises and debate during problem solving rounds.
  5. Last minute regrets ? Check your RASCI matrix and, depending on the capacity the person expresses having to stay engaged in the intention of the meeting, see how you can implement asynchronous work.

Closing and Follow through

  • Provide opt-in into follow up tasks based on expertise and capacity, name proper accountability / support mechanisms for follow through based on named capacity, and appropriate timeline & communication channels in these circumstances.
  • Leave time for people to check out, including inviting feedback on how to make engagement easier, and access more varied & aware of peoples’ situation in future meetings. We’re all learning together!

If you want to connect with us around designing virtual meetings, workplaces, or tech experiences that answer the needs of your teams and those you serve, we’re here to help